moving on

Hello princess 

Its been such a long while since I've posted anything and I sincerely want to apologize for my absence.

Our topic today is one were everyonehas something to learn from.

Moving on:

I felt like there is a need to  adress this topic because alot of people have lost themselves, there identity, there calling, the reason why they exist,alot of people are stuck on one phase of their life simply because somebody hurt them,somebody took advantage of them ,somebody didn't know how to love them ,I need to address this, too many people have lost the will to live,too many people have gone into depression simply because they've been hurt by someone or they couldn't get what they hoped to achieve.

 

The first step to take :

The first step to  moving on is usually not easy to do because you have understand why you we are puts in that situation why you made the mistakes you made moving on without learning from your mistakes it's pointless because if you don't get the knowledge from that mistake,the mistake can always occur again. Most time it is difficult to do because we were not the one to be blamed but still we have to try and understand why what happened happened. 

Step two:

The second step just like the fisrt step isnt easy 

As it is commonly said it to err is human but to forgive is divine.

In this case forgiving isn't the hard part but forgetting what hurt you and the pain you felt is quiet hard but it is something you have to do.

Forgiveness most times is not for the offender but for the victim. you have to try and forget the pain someone caused you in other to move on in life it isnt easy but it has to be done

Step three:

Confornt your pain .

Stand face to face with the situation or person who hurt you ,the temptation to ask why (why did you do it ,why did you hurt me )may occur but the truth is you may never be able to understand why ,the best way to go about it is just to let it go. 

Dont run away from how you feel,dont be afraid to face your emotions ,talk to someone trusted  tell them how you feel .

 

Final step:

Like i normally say the most important person in your life is you

 Dealing with the 'u'factor is the most important factor

After all is said and done, after you've understood your mistakes, after you've forgiven who hurt you ,after you have come to terms with how you feel it is then the real work begins .

You have to forgive yourself ,most times i know it wasn't you at fault or maybe you tried your best but to truly move on you must forgive yourself 

In conclusion if you have taken all the steps and you want to confirm if you have truly gotten over it  then let people learn from your experience, talk about it ,write about it that way you're free yourselfand freeing others .

Be you everyday,one love 😘.